She was very anxious that you'd hate her now, you know, because of what happened after the last time. But she does want to continue. For the conversation about exactly how, though, she wants there to be someone else there. Just... for them to be there.
She's not yet confident enough to negotiate completely on her own. And yes, she'll need to get there, but we're able to give her this for now. The knowledge that she's not alone.
It's exactly the point. She came to me by herself the first time, she would've managed it again. But why should she bother if you're there to do it for her.
And my point is that I wouldn't actually be doing anything for her, which she would realise. This isn't all about you, and it's definitely not about me. I know that you know how many people have gotten involved in this, and that has to be dealt with.
None of my business? Really? The world is larger than just the part of it that you want to keep. She is not yours to control, and whether or not you care, she cares and I'd think that would count for something.
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